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I was raised by pedophiles. Sexual abusers told me what I should want, do and think. Even though I had icky feelings when they touched me, I wasn’t allowed to say no.
The pedophiles believed the narrative they preached. “If you just don’t make a big deal about it, it won’t be” they said. They believed their proselytizing was enough to prevent damage from sexual abuse. They were wrong.
When I became an adult I made it my life’s quest to understand why they were wrong, like my intuition had told me all along. I learned science that taught me the specific reasons they were wrong.
I help people feel seen and validated, sometimes for the first time in their lives. I get to be a guide to my clients on their path of healing. I am an EMDR certified Marriage Family Therapist. As part of my treatment I provide psycho education to explain why and how we wound—and provide tools to aid in recovery.
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My parents were pedophiles so I didn’t have a fighting chance. At the age of eleven I was forced to spend days at a time with a couple I had never met. I became a prisoner in their pedophile den. They tried to pass me to a child pornographer who was killing kids for snuff films but I was saved from that fate. Temporarily. It took another miracle for me to finally escape my life of perversion, addiction, and abandonment.
The story of how I was groomed to be a prostitute but instead I became a trauma therapist.
As a child abuse survivor I felt doomed by the trauma symptoms that overwhelmed me. But I was determined to heal. It's been a lifelong battle that led me to become a healer. I became a Marriage Family Therapist while raising my children with my husband. I have been providing individual, couples and family therapy now for 15 years.